Yes

No

      1.  Are you afraid of your partner?

2. Do you feel as if you have to walk on eggshells to keep your partner from getting angry?

3. Does she/he emotionally abuse you (insults, belittling comments, ignoring you, acting sulky or angry when you initiate an action or idea)?

4. Does she/he tell you who you may be friends with, how you should dress, or try to control other elements of your life or relationship?

5. Does she/he get jealous when there is no reason?

6. Is he/she physically violent to you or others, even if it’s “just” grabbing and pushing to get his/her way?

7. Is he/se angry and threatening to the extent that you have changed your life so as not to “provoke” him/her?

8. Does your partner make all the financial decisions without consulting you?

9. Is it impossible for you to freely express your values and opinions?

10. Does he/she have extreme mood swings from being kind one minute and cruel the next?